I am Esther, in a 2 year relationship.3 weeks ago, i visited my guy and met his absence but his senior brother was around so i decided to wait for him. Already cool with his bro, we decided to play truth or dare. As we played, he dared me to kiss him. It was awkward but i decided to prove to him i can.We started kissing and could not stop leading to unprotected sex.I started feeling funny so i took a pregnancy test and found out that I am pregnant.I am scared, confused and ashamed. Please help

Maxwell Randy 17 Feb 2021

It's really unfortunate this had to happen, however, to be honest with here, you saw the red flag way back before that day. What if it was an act to test your faithfulness? I personally will not take it lightly with you if you were my girlfriend.

The harm had been caused and can not be unwritten, just take it as a lesson and face reality. You can't find happiness in that family if you should decide to move on with his brother.

You need to explain things to your guy remorsefully so he can understand and let go.

Robert kobb 09 Feb 2021

Don’t be scared , just accept it that next time we don’t play games to show who you really are , cause if you knew this could jeopardize your relationship. You should have not done it but just keep the precious babe

Vivian 05 Feb 2021

Please keep the baby. Children are gifts from God.

Anonymous 05 Feb 2021

Pls keep the baby
Tell the guy

Dinah Adjoa 03 Feb 2021

Don't hide the truth from your boyfriend because it will eventually surface. Gather courage and inform both your boyfriend and his brother.

Anonymous 02 Feb 2021

My dear, it is ok to feel scared, confused and ashamed the one thing you should know is that it has already happened and that there's nothing you can do change it. Your focus now is to speak with your parents and try to explain to them your current situation. It is best to inform them so that they can help you and train you on how you can be able to raise the child you are carrying. No matter what do not think about getting rid of a child. It is considered as a blessing. My only help for you if you have a baby and inform your boyfriend as well as the father of the child. Structure yourself and trust God to do the rest.

Ewenam Abla 01 Feb 2021

You have to let the cat out of the bag before it's too late