Home / Forum / Love / I had only love one guy in my life, for the past years now after completing SHS together with him in the same school, we both lost contact for 5 good years whils proceeding with studies at the higher level. Thou, i still have him in mind hoping to meet him one. I finally falled in love with different guy @ the period of service to complete my studies. Gust what happened then?? The very first day I had sex with this new guy ? Was the same day Maxwell, called me n is like woow, i was very much happy to hear from him. Through our conversation , we both realize nothing had change so quickly I call off that relationship with de 2nd guy. I went back to my old guy, within dat same week. So I got pregnant n didn't know who the pregnancy is for. So I kept de pregnancy, till I explained to my best friend .I was posted to work somewhere far n I delivered a baby boy who is now 4 year, thou me n my old guy still dating he always visit me I use to but the truth of matter was exactly what I told him. He said, I shouldn't worry at all he still love me as it was n we shall soon get married so we can do DNA test, if it happens that he's son , fine if not the still remain our son. He is okay. He then travel when de baby was 1 year 8 mouth with a contract basis for two years .just last month may 15 , was exactly two years he left us n after he made me went to his parents n they also went to my parents to gets us married this very month, He has now change his mind that he is not coming this year again n he can't still promised me of marriage. Tears is my food now, n was hospitalized for three weeks , I nearly die . His parents kept taking me from prayers to another ,to see man of God. Please guys, I'm dying inside n has lost concentration n also reduce. I never cheat when he left , I did nothing wrong. Only the truth about de boy was what I told him. With the intention that maybe one day de boy maybe different, who knows so it won't look like I cheated on him while dating him. What wrong have I committed. I love maxwell. Please guys, I kindly need your help. I can't sleep as well . Thinking about this whole n crying everyday was what I does . His parents kept giving me assurance to wait for their son. God knows my heart .