Home / Forum / Love / Hey guys so I really like this guy and I’m interested in getting to know him. The only problem is I haven’t dealt with my personal trauma and he hasn’t dealt with his as well. He has accepted them but they are haunting him. So basically his fiancé’s passing is causing majority of his trauma and lack of sleep. Of course something like that will greatly affect ones desire to move on. So I don’t know what to do. Keep talking to him and trying to understand him as I am already doing or give up. Because I really think this one is going to take time, and I have all the patients in the world to wait for him until he’s ready to move on. If your in my situation what would you do?