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      Hello everyone... There's this guy I started chatting with on Instagram somewhere 2018, we later exchanged contacts and continued to WhatsApp. Our chats were on and off, however, we started to get really close last year after we met for the first time since 2018. At first, he was secretive but after we met, I felt that I kinda like him so I asked that he tell me more about himself since it looked like I've always been open to him but he wasn't. He agreed, so I asked him questions about himself and he answered them very well. Before I forget, he has told me he likes me tho. Recently, I realized that he never likes to take NO for an answer, that was after we talked last two days on a video call. The thing is we don't really vibe, whenever we chat, it's always about sexual talks and that's only when we end up chatting for long. I also don't like answering his video calls cos he's always asking to see(excuse my language please) my boobs or ass with nothing on, I keep telling him no but truth be told, on two occasions I let him have his way so last two days, he requested for that again and I went like " you'll soon start asking for more by requesting to take a "look down there" too, his response was that " you always keep telling me no, you've never said a yes to me before, one thing about me is that when someone keeps telling me no, I psyche my mind to the fact that they'll always say no to me when I request for something and before the person knows, I've taken my mind off him or her. That's why I keep making requests so we don't fade away, it keeps my mind on you" And mind you the only requests he has made are either for me to visit him or to show him some sexual parts of me. It looks like even if I'm not comfortable with his request, I still have to say yes and I see all these as red flags but I kindly need your opinions on whether I should go ahead to have a relationship with him if he asks that we do or do you all think that I'm just overreacting? NB: We're not in a relationship yet, we're now working towards that. Thank you.

      I should say you know better than him. Talk to him and let him understand. A real king or Prince waits for his queen or Princess. He doesn’t go jumping on her before time. Showing a guy your private parts doesn’t put respect on you. Ladies deserves to be respected too

      Posted by Anonymous8 Answers

      11 Feb 2021

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      I have problem with the lady I seriously love. I’m a student in my final year in the university. I met this young lady through a brother and we started dating which I made it open to my parents that she will be the one I will settle with, she happens to be the First Lady in my life. While schooling, I helped her get her own shop, furnished inside with her working materials. Many times she runs out of capital, which I do give her money to start all over. I am not from a rich home, no,not at all but I believe in God and hardwork. To cut everything shot, she has been acting so strange that even messaging her will take about three days to reply even sometimes nothing in response. Because of their area and how hard things are on them, I went to the family and proposed that she should come to Accra because now that’s where I am schooling so she can get something to do. As the parent agree, a year later and I built her, her own shop. She has changed, she can home and stay with her phone throughout, I have to cook, clean up the room most often. Last time, I spoke to her about her attitude and the reply was that, I should know that I have not married her so I can’t be telling her what to do. I truly loves her but now, she is causing me pain all the time. I feel like letting her go but even if she goes away, there is nothing at home for her. She is not paying anything when it comes to rent and any other payment. I recently I stop giving her money, because I am feeling cheated not that she did something with someone, but I can’t tell she has. But the issue is that, she is not giving me her attention anymore. Her status is full of messages that I feel like she is indirectly telling me she is fade up. I asked her several times but she always pretend nothing. Please what should I do?

      Are you loving her out of pity? Well done for helping because you believed in her. If you feel her attitude is not adding up offlate, give her some time with a little cold treatment. When she realizes your essence and is ready to behave well, great enough. But if she’s not moved, you’ve lost her please and you should move.

      Posted by S. Abednego1 Answers

      01 April 2021

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